I know many of you are curious or just humored to see what I could come up with.
Well, I am speaking from personal experience. Yes, I’ve been proposed to several times and married twice.
Okay, the first thing you must do is ask yourself if you’re ready to marry.
Are you ready to spend the rest of your life with the same person?
Are you ready to have kids, maybe, and have intercourse with the same person forever?
Are you financially, mentally, and emotionally ready to be married?
Ask yourselves these questions before I continue.
Now that we have the forewarning out of the way. Let’s get on with the lesson.
You first have to tweak your perfect partner list. Yes, this means writing a Pros and Cons list. The PROS are your partner’s qualities that you CANNOT live without, and the CONS are the qualities you can compromise or live with.
First Three Months
-It’s time to meet that special someone once you finish everything. The type of person you would want to meet has to be ready for a long relationship or marriage in the future. Not someone who’s looking to hit it and quit it.
-You find these things out while dating, but don’t ask these questions on the first few dates. But there’s a way around this: awkward conversation and to find out sooner. Get your date to talk about their parents or mother.
Ask where they grew up and their holidays, etc.
Ask if they do any volunteer work, etc.
-If your date gets happy talking about their nieces, nephews, cousins, etc., Or if they love family life and so on. Suppose your date speaks highly about both of their parents despite uncertain circumstances with either parent. You have a winner.
– If your date, smile at kids, babies, and family fun in the restaurant. You have a winner. Pray that they’re smiling at these kids and babies for good reasons.
-You also want to get your date to talk about prior relationships. Do this after a few dates. Find out why their prior relationships didn’t work out.
After you find this out—it’s time for you to become the partner they dream of. Let your partner see that you’re able to hold your own.
-Maybe start a garden at your house. Or volunteer at an orphanage or hospital children’s ward or community center. Let them see how you are with kids. If you don’t know about sports, you also want to learn about sports, and if you don’t know how to cook, please learn.
This would help them see you as a parent to their children and a friend. So, be humble laid back, and funny, but honest. Good potential partners hate fake people, and they can detect them from a mile away. So, don’t act desperate. Remember, they need you just as much as you need them.
Three to Five Months
Few months should have passed, and if things are going smoothly. Your date should be texting or calling you first thing before they sleep and awake. You may even receive flowers or cute text emojis.
*Quick Note– Hold Out on Sex Until The “Love Word”
You want to build up your friendship first. Become the first person your partner wants to tell everything to. Become their best friend. You do this by listening to them with compassion, empathy, and no judgment.
Signs things are going smoothly. Your partner would start bringing you around their family and friends. This will determine if you are a keeper in this greeting and introduction.
The people you want to impress are the parents–
* If you are a man, both parents, especially the mother
*If you are a woman, both parents, especially the father
You also want to impress their best friend by observing how your partner acts around them. However, you should know a lot about these people from your conversations. So, I hope you’ve been listening.
Key Bonuses to Help You Win These People Over
-Women-
Feed the perfect daughter action. Do this by helping in the kitchen. Look around the house; does she have a lot of flowers around? Mention your wish to start a garden. Talk about moments you had with your mother or would like to have with your mother. If your date has siblings or best friends, become the perfect sister/friend and befriend the sibling or friend he respects the most. Buddy up with this sibling or friend, but be natural, not weird and desperate. No need to worry about the father. Most fathers are happy if their wife is happy.
-Men-
For men, you would want to really impress the father. Many good fathers are unwilling to allow their daughters to be used by some jiggle low. The mother would tell you if they don’t like you. There are no games there. Most moms know when a man is full of it from the initial greeting. If they’re unsure, they would follow the father’s lead or ask a lot of questions with no smiles afterward.
Key Bonuses to Help You Win These People Over
The same actions apply but in reverse. You would want to peep out the father’s hobbies. Do you see a lot of sports memorabilia or fishing pictures? Use that as winning points, by revealing stories about your father or things you want to do. But by now, you should’ve learned a lot about her parents. These actions will allow the father to see you as a future son-in-law.
Now, the parents wants you to treat her child respectfully, pull out her chair, and kiss her on the temple fellas. Hold your partner’s hand or rub their backs to show support at that moment when things are getting awkward. When the course is complete, offer to help clear the table and tell your date to stay seated. But before leaving, give them a soft peck on the lips. Both men and women love that. Always look at your partner with a smile, admiration, and love. Let the parents know that their child’s heart, mind, body, and life are safe with you.
*Oh, follow the last rules for siblings and best friends.
If things went smoothly, you will be asked to join the family at special events, which may signify a coming proposal. So, be on your “A” game.
Sixth Month
If the family outings go smoothly, your partner will bring up marriage, etc., and your partner will reveal they love you. If this happens, make sure to give your partner the loving they forever crave and want. I’m talking toes curled, screaming, tears, dreaming eyes afterward, all of it. And be down for whatever, wherever.
Once the sex is intact, then it’s time to see if you can stand to sleep/stay with one another. But by now, you should’ve known their traits from your conversations.
Suppose it looks like you can stand one another. The proposal should be coming soon. In most cases, before the six months were up. In other cases, within a year. They do this to make sure.
If this happens, still keep good behavior and be yourself. But like the older people say, master your partner’s dance. Meaning, learn their flaws, and let them learn yours. See if they know your moods, likes, dislikes, and so on.
With these steps and rules, you should be Married, and maybe have a baby on the way within two years after being married (depending on the couple), I guarantee.
Quick Note* PLEASE DON’T COMPROMISE TOO MUCH. BECAUSE A PARTNER SHOULD TAKE YOU AS IS. YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE TO GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS, GOALS, ETC. THEY SHOULD BE YOUR BIGGEST CHEERLEADER! OH KEYWORD IS PARTNER NOT MOTHER OR FATHER TO THEM. IF THEY’RE LOOKING FOR THAT, RUN!! (adlib)
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